The Love of Many Will Grow Cold”
Jesus gave a sobering warning about the spiritual condition of the world in the last days. His words reveal something deeper than a decline in kindness. He describes a world in which lawlessness increases and love gradually disappears from the hearts of many.
1. The Scripture
Matthew 24:12 (NASB 1995)
“Because lawlessness is increased, most people’s love will grow cold.”
Young’s Literal Translation (YLT)
“And because of the abounding of the lawlessness, the love of the many shall become cold.”
Notice the connection Jesus makes: increasing lawlessness produces cooling love.
2. The Greek meaning
Two Greek words help us understand this passage.
A. Love: Agapē (ἀγάπη)
This is the word for love used here. It describes love that gives, seeks another’s good, and is not merely governed by emotion.
Jesus is warning that the love which should characterize His people can become weakened.
B. Grow cold: Psychō (ψύχω)
Meaning: to cool, to become cold, or to lose warmth.
The picture is striking: something that was once warm gradually loses its heat.
Jesus is describing a progressive cooling of love.
The Believer’s Death to Sin and Newness of Life

Romans 6:1–4: The Believer’s Death to Sin and Newness of Life
The implications of grace, union with Christ, and the believer’s new identity
PRIMARY TEXT · NASB 1995
You have selected a remarkably important passage. Romans 6 is not merely an instruction about how Christians should behave. It is Paul’s explanation of what happened to the believer when he or she was united with Jesus Christ.
The central revelation is this:
God did not merely forgive your old life. He joined you to Christ in His death, burial, and resurrection, giving you a new position and a new way of living.
Let’s examine the passage beyond a conventional summary.
1. The most valuable insights
Insight 1: Grace is not permission to sin. It is God’s power to bring us into a new life.
Paul begins:
Romans 6:1–2 (NASB 1995)
“What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin so that grace may increase? May it never be! How shall we who died to sin still live in it?”
Paul anticipates a misunderstanding of his teaching in Romans 5:20:
“Where sin increased, grace abounded all the more.”
Someone might reason that if grace increases where sin increases, then continuing in sin gives grace more opportunity to operate.
Paul rejects that reasoning completely.
But notice something important: Paul does not primarily respond by saying, “You must try harder not to sin.”
He says:
“How shall we who died to sin still live in it?”
That is an identity statement before it is a behavioral instruction.
The foundation of Christian living is not simply what you must stop doing. It is what God has already accomplished in Christ.
Insight 2: “Died to sin” is a statement of spiritual position, not a claim that temptation has disappeared.
The Greek expression translated “died to sin” is:
- Greek: apethanomen tē hamartia
- ἀπεθάνομεν τῇ ἁμαρτίᾳ
- Meaning: We died to sin.
The verb apethanomen comes from apothnēskō, meaning to die.
Paul uses the aorist tense, presenting this death as an accomplished event.
This matters enormously.
Paul does not say that believers are gradually trying to die to sin. He says that something has already happened through their union with Christ.
This does not mean Christians no longer experience temptation, struggle, or the possibility of sinful behavior.
It means sin no longer possesses the same relationship of mastery and dominion over the believer.
Compare:
Romans 6:14 (NASB 1995)
“For sin shall not be master over you, for you are not under law but under grace.”
The Greek word for master or lord is kyrieuō (κυριεύω).
It describes exercising lordship or dominion.
Paul’s point is that sin is no longer supposed to rule the person who belongs to Christ.
That is a much stronger message than simply telling people to behave better.
2. The hidden significance of baptism into Christ
Romans 6:3 (NASB 1995)
“Or do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus have been baptized into His death?”
The phrase “baptized into Christ” is particularly significant.
Greek: baptizō eis Christon Iēsoun.
The preposition eis means into, indicating movement into a relationship or identification.
Paul is describing our identification with Christ.
This is more than identifying with Jesus as a religious teacher. It is participation in what He accomplished.
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Consider the implications:
- His death becomes the basis of our freedom from sin’s dominion.
- His burial signifies the termination of our former life in Adam.
- His resurrection establishes the foundation of our new life.
Paul is not teaching that water baptism itself independently produces all these realities. He is describing the believer’s union with Christ, which water baptism publicly portrays.
Counterintuitive lesson: Christianity does not begin with your determination to imitate Jesus. It begins with God’s work of joining you to Jesus.
3. The burial is just as important as the death
Romans 6:4 (NASB 1995)
“Therefore we have been buried with Him through baptism into death, so that as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life.”
Why does Paul emphasize burial?
Because burial confirms that death has occurred.
Paul’s argument progresses:
1. Death
Your former identity under sin’s dominion was dealt with through Christ’s death.
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2. Burial
The old life is not something you must continually resurrect and return to.
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3. Resurrection
You now have a new life whose source is the resurrected Christ.
Here is an important application:
Many believers spend their Christian lives trying to improve the person they were before Christ.
Paul’s message is considerably more radical.
You are not simply an improved version of your former self. You have been brought into a new relationship with God through Christ.
See also:
- 2 Corinthians 5:17
- Galatians 2:20
- Colossians 3:1–4
- Ephesians 2:4–6
4. An important Greek word: Newness of life
The expression “newness of life” comes from two Greek words:
- Kainotēs (καινότης): newness, freshness, a new quality or condition.
- Zōē (ζωή): life.
Paul uses kainotēs rather than merely describing something that is recent in time.
The emphasis is on a new quality of life.
This is consistent with the New Testament’s teaching about eternal life.
Jesus said:
John 10:10 (NASB 1995)
“I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”
Eternal life is not merely endless existence after death.
It is the life of God given to us through Jesus Christ.
The practical implication: We should not approach Christianity as though God has merely given us a new set of religious rules. He has given us a new life in Christ.
5. Implicit assumptions Paul is challenging
There are several assumptions buried in the question Paul raises.
| False assumption | Paul’s answer |
|---|---|
| Grace gives permission to sin. | Grace brings us out from under sin’s dominion. |
| Sin remains our master. | We have died to sin through Christ. |
| Christianity is self-improvement. | Christianity begins with union with Christ. |
| The Christian life is primarily about human effort. | Resurrection life is God’s provision. |
| We must earn a new identity. | Our new identity is established in Christ. |
One distinction deserves special attention:
Grace does not make sin harmless. Grace makes freedom from sin’s dominion possible.
6. A connection to the finished work of Christ
This passage connects beautifully with Romans 5:17.
Romans 5:17 (NASB 1995)
“For if by the transgression of the one, death reigned through the one, much more those who receive the abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness will reign in life through the One, Jesus Christ.”
Notice the contrast:
- Adam’s transgression brought death’s reign.
- Christ’s obedience brought the abundance of grace and the gift of righteousness.
- Those who receive God’s provision are to reign in life through Jesus Christ.
This is not a message of religious striving.
It is a message of receiving what God has provided.
And this is where Romans 6 becomes especially important for teaching believers about righteousness consciousness.
You cannot consistently live out of an identity you do not understand.
When believers see themselves primarily through their former failures, they often approach God with condemnation, insecurity, and sin consciousness.
But Paul directs their attention to what happened in Christ.
Romans 8:1 (NASB 1995)
“Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
The answer to sin consciousness is not pretending sin does not exist. It is understanding the sufficiency of Christ’s finished work and learning to live from your new identity.
7. Practical applications: What do we do with this revelation?
Here are five applications that can be put into practice immediately.
1. Change the starting point. Begin with what God accomplished in Christ, not with your past failures.
2. Reject sin’s claim to authority. When temptation comes, remember that sin is no longer your rightful master.
3. Renew your thinking. Meditate on Romans 6:6–14. Your behavior is to come into agreement with your new identity.
4. Live from resurrection life. Do not merely try to avoid the old life. Walk in the new life God has provided.
5. Teach grace correctly. Grace is neither permission to sin nor a demand to earn God’s acceptance. It is God’s provision in Christ for a new life.
8. A particularly important connection: Romans 6:6
I would not stop at verse 4 when teaching this passage. Verse 6 explains the foundation of Paul’s argument.
Romans 6:6 (NASB 1995)
“Knowing this, that our old self was crucified with Him, in order that our body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be slaves to sin;”
Notice Paul’s progression:
- Verse 3: Do you not know?
- Verse 6: Knowing this.
- Verse 9: Knowing that Christ has been raised.
- Verse 11: Consider yourselves to be dead to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus.
There is a progression from revelation to understanding to reckoning.
The Greek word in verse 11 is logizomai (λογίζομαι).
It means to reckon, consider, count, or regard something as true.
Paul is telling believers to bring their thinking into agreement with what God has already accomplished.
This is not positive thinking. It is faith agreeing with God’s declaration.
9. A teaching outline: Dead to Sin, Alive to God
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Central message: You cannot understand the Christian life until you understand your union with Christ.
Point 1: Grace changes our relationship with sin.
Romans 6:1–2
We have died to sin. It no longer has rightful dominion over us.
Point 2: Our identification with Christ changes our identity.
Romans 6:3–4
His death, burial, and resurrection establish the foundation of our new life.
Point 3: We must reckon ourselves according to God’s finished work.
Romans 6:11
Faith does not attempt to accomplish what Christ has already accomplished. Faith receives and acts upon God’s provision.
Point 4: We walk in the life we have received.
Romans 6:4
The objective is not merely to stop living wrongly. It is to walk in newness of life.
10. Personal meditation and confession
Read this slowly, allowing the truth of Romans 6 to shape your thinking.
My Identity in Christ
Through faith in Jesus Christ, I have been united with Him in His death, burial, and resurrection.
I am not under the dominion of sin. Sin is not my master.
My former life has been dealt with through the finished work of Christ.
I have received a new life in Him.
I am alive to God through Jesus Christ.
I do not live to earn righteousness, acceptance, or God’s favor. I live from the righteousness and acceptance God has provided through His Son.
By the grace of God, I will walk in newness of life.
I am alive to God in Christ Jesus!
Prayer
Father, thank You for the finished work of Jesus Christ. Thank You that through His death, burial, and resurrection, You have brought me into a new life.
Open my understanding to the reality of my union with Christ. Teach me to think, speak, and live in agreement with what You have accomplished.
I refuse to give sin the place of dominion that belongs to Christ. I receive Your grace, Your righteousness, and the life that is mine through Jesus.
May my daily walk demonstrate the reality of the resurrection life of Christ within me.
In Jesus’ name. Amen.
11. The deepest takeaway
There is a distinction between trying to become something and learning to live from what God has already made you in Christ.
Romans 6 is not primarily a chapter about trying to become dead to sin.
It is a chapter about understanding that, through union with Christ, you have died to sin’s dominion and have been raised to walk in newness of life.
The believer’s victory begins with revelation, not human determination.
That is the foundation of grace-centered living.
A final Scripture worth connecting to this entire study:
Colossians 3:3 (NASB 1995):
“For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.”
That is the believer’s new position.
And it is a truth worth building an entire teaching around.
Give Room to Wrath
Romans 12:19: Vengeance Belongs to the Lord
Romans 12:19 (NASB 1995)
“Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘VENGEANCE IS MINE, I WILL REPAY,’ says the Lord.”
This is a powerful passage about trusting God’s justice rather than taking justice into our own hands. Paul is teaching believers how to respond when they are wronged, mistreated, or persecuted.
1. The context: Romans 12:17–21
Paul writes:
Romans 12:17–18 (NASB 1995)
“Never pay back evil for evil to anyone. Respect what is right in the sight of all men. If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.”
Notice three instructions:
- Do not repay evil with evil.
- Pursue what is right.
- Make peace whenever it is within your power.
Then comes verse 19: Do not take revenge. Leave room for God.
Paul is not saying that evil should be ignored. He is saying that personal retaliation is not our responsibility.
2. The Greek meaning of vengeance
The Greek word translated vengeance is:
ἐκδίκησις (ekdikēsis)
Meaning:
- Retribution.
- Justice against wrongdoing.
- The execution of rightful punishment.
The word carries the idea of justice being administered against an offense.
Paul is making an important distinction: God has the authority to administer ultimate justice. We do not possess that authority to personally retaliate.
3. “Leave room for the wrath of God”
The Greek expression is dote topon tē orgē.
Literally, it conveys the idea of giving place or making room for wrath.
In other words, don’t occupy the position that belongs to God.
When someone wrongs you, you have two choices:
- Take matters into your own hands and seek personal revenge.
- Entrust the matter to God, who sees everything and judges perfectly.
Deuteronomy 32:35 (NASB 1995)
“Vengeance is Mine, and retribution, In due time their foot will slip; For the day of their calamity is near, And the impending things are hastening upon them.”
Paul is quoting this passage from Moses’ song.
God’s justice may not operate according to our timetable, but delayed justice is not forgotten justice.
4. Jesus demonstrated this principle
1 Peter 2:23 (NASB 1995)
“And while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to Him who judges righteously.”
Consider what Jesus did.
He was falsely accused, beaten, mocked, and crucified. Yet He did not retaliate.
Why?
Because He continually entrusted Himself to the Father, who judges righteously.
This is not weakness. It is confidence in God’s character.
5. The surprising conclusion: Overcome evil with good
Romans 12:20–21 (NASB 1995)
“But if your enemy is hungry, feed him, and if he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.”
“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
Notice that Paul does not conclude by telling us to defeat our enemies through retaliation.
He tells us to overcome evil through good.
The expression about burning coals has been understood in several ways, including the shame or conviction that kindness can produce in an enemy. Whatever its precise imagery, the instruction is clear: respond with goodness rather than revenge.
6. An important distinction: Forgiveness does not eliminate justice
There are three things we should distinguish:
- Forgiveness: Releasing personal resentment and the desire to retaliate.
- Justice: Recognizing that wrongdoing deserves accountability.
- Trust: Entrusting ultimate judgment to God.
Forgiveness does not mean allowing someone to continue abusing you. It does not mean refusing appropriate legal protection or accountability.
Romans 13:1–4 immediately follows this teaching and explains that governing authorities have a God-given role in maintaining justice.
7. The connection to our identity in Christ
Here is an important spiritual principle:
When we know who we are in Christ, we do not have to fight for personal vindication through revenge.
We can release the offense without surrendering our confidence in God’s righteousness.
1 Peter 5:7 (NASB 1995)
“Casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.”
That includes the emotional burden of being mistreated.
We can trust God with what happened, what is happening, and what has yet to be made right.
A meditation
I do not have to become what wounded me.
I do not have to repay evil with evil.
I am free to forgive because my confidence is not in my ability to make someone pay. My confidence is in the righteousness of God.
I can walk in love without compromising truth, establish boundaries without hatred, and pursue peace without surrendering justice.
God has not asked me to administer vengeance. He has called me to overcome evil with good.
Prayer
Father, I entrust every injustice, every offense, and every wrong committed against me into Your hands. Help me release resentment and the desire for personal revenge. Give me the grace to walk in love, the wisdom to establish proper boundaries, and the confidence to trust Your righteous judgment. I refuse to allow someone else’s wrongdoing to determine the condition of my heart. Through Christ, I choose to overcome evil with good. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
One final thought: Romans 12:19 is not a promise that God will satisfy every personal desire for revenge. It is a declaration that justice ultimately belongs to Him. Our freedom comes from no longer carrying the burden of being our own judge, jury, and executioner.
And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. 10 Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:9-10
Sufficient
And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. 10 Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:9-10
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Translated as:
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to be possessed of unfailing strengthto be strong, to suffice, to be enoughto defend, ward off
Paul’s Thorn
7 Because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself, there was given me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me—to keep me from exalting myself! 8 Concerning this I implored the Lord three times that it might leave me. 9 And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. 10 Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:7-10
Sufficient grace:to be possessed of unfailing strengthto be strong, to suffice, to be enoughto defend, ward off
to be satisfied, to be contented
He who did not spare His own Son
He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things?”
In this teaching, we consider:
The Father’s love: The cross demonstrates the depth of God’s love for us.
The finished work of Christ: Jesus was delivered up for our redemption.
Our confidence in God: We can approach Him with faith rather than fear and condemnation.
The meaning of “freely give us all things”: Understanding God’s provision in the context of His purpose and our life in Christ.
Faith rooted in God’s character: Our confidence rests not in our performance, but in what God has accomplished through His Son.
Show Me Your Glory
17 The LORD said to Moses, “I will also do this thing of which you have spoken; for you have found favor in My sight and I have known you by name.” 18 Then Moses said, “I pray You, show me Your glory!” 19 And He said, “I Myself will make all My goodness pass before you, and will proclaim the name of the LORD before you; and I will be gracious to whom I will be gracious, and will show compassion on whom I will show compassion.” 20 But He said, “You cannot see My face, for no man can see Me and live!” 21 Then the LORD said, “Behold, there is a place by Me, and you shall stand there on the rock; 22 and it will come about, while My glory is passing by, that I will put you in the cleft of the rock and cover you with My hand until I have passed by. 23 Then I will take My hand away and you shall see My back, but My face shall not be seen.” Exodus 33:17-23
The LORD descended in the cloud and stood there with him as he called upon the name of the LORD. 6 Then the LORD passed by in front of him and proclaimed, “The LORD, the LORD God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth; 7 who keeps lovingkindness for thousands, who forgives iniquity, transgression and sin; yet He will by no means leave the guilty unpunished, visiting the iniquity of fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and fourth generations.” 8 Moses made haste to bow low toward the earth and worship. 9 He said, “If now I have found favor in Your sight, O Lord, I pray, let the Lord go along in our midst, even though the people are so obstinate, and pardon our iniquity and our sin, and take us as Your own possession.” Exodus 34:5-9
How Much Faith
Foundation Scripture: Matthew 17:20
Jesus taught that faith the size of a mustard seed could move a mountain. The message is simple: God is not asking us to trust in our own ability, but to put our faith in Him and His Word.
Point 1 — Faith Does Not Have to Be Big to Be Real
Scripture: Matthew 17:20
Jesus compared faith to a mustard seed, a very small seed.
- Don’t despise the beginning of your faith.
- Don’t measure faith by your feelings.
- Put your confidence in the greatness of God.
Teaching point: The power of faith is not found in human confidence alone, but in the God in whom we place our confidence.
Say this to your audience: “You may feel like your faith is small today, but don’t give up! Put that faith in a great God.”
Point 2 — Faith Comes by Hearing God’s Word
Scripture: Romans 10:17
“So faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.”
- Faith is nourished by the Word of God.
- We cannot build strong confidence in God’s promises while continually feeding on fear and unbelief.
- Spend time hearing, reading, meditating on, and obeying Scripture.
Teaching point: If you want your faith strengthened, give God’s Word a place in your heart every day.
Say this: “Feed your faith on the Word of God, not on the fears of this world!”
Point 3 — Faith Must Be Put into Action
Scripture: James 2:17
James teaches that faith without works is dead.
- Faith believes what God has said.
- Faith responds in obedience.
- Faith acts on God’s Word even when circumstances have not yet changed.
Abraham demonstrated faith by obeying God (Hebrews 11:8).
Teaching point: Biblical faith is more than agreeing with Scripture intellectually. It means trusting God enough to respond to His Word.
Say this: “Don’t just talk about believing God. Let your decisions and obedience demonstrate your faith!”
Point 4 — Faith Speaks in Agreement with God’s Word
Scripture: Mark 11:22–24
Jesus told His disciples to have faith in God and taught them about believing prayer.
- Speak in agreement with God’s revealed truth.
- Refuse to let fear have the final word in your heart.
- Pray with confidence while remaining submitted to God’s will.
This is not a formula in which words automatically produce whatever we desire. Our confidence rests in God, not in the power of human speech.
Teaching point: Faith does not deny the existence of a mountain; faith refuses to treat the mountain as greater than God.
Say this: “My circumstances may be real, but my God is greater than my circumstances!”
Point 5 — Our Faith Rests on the Finished Work of Jesus
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 1:20
“For as many as the promises of God are, in Him they are yes; therefore through Him also is our Amen to the glory of God through us.”
Under the New Covenant:
- Through Jesus, we have access to the Father (Hebrews 4:16).
- We stand in God’s grace through faith (Romans 5:1–2).
- We resist the devil as we submit to God (James 4:7).
- We trust God’s promises because of His faithfulness.
Teaching point: We do not use faith to earn what Jesus accomplished. We trust God and respond to what He has provided through Christ.
Say this: “My faith is not in my ability to make something happen. My faith is in Jesus Christ, who is faithful to His Word!”
Closing: Three declarations of faith
I will believe God’s Word.
Romans 10:17
I will act upon what God has spoken.
James 2:17
I will trust God regardless of what I see.
2 Corinthians 5:7
Closing prayer
Father, in the name of Jesus, thank You for Your Word. Help us to trust You with genuine faith, even when our faith feels small. Strengthen our hearts through Your Word. Teach us to walk in obedience, pray with confidence, and stand firm in the finished work of Jesus Christ. We refuse to be ruled by fear, and we choose to trust Your faithfulness. In Jesus’ name, amen.